Safety & Chat Tips

XandMix is designed to be a friendly, spontaneous place to meet strangers, but chatting with people you don't know online always calls for a little common sense. These guidelines will help you enjoy the platform while keeping your personal information and wellbeing protected. XandMix is strictly for adults aged 18 and older.

Protect your personal information

Never share your full name, home address, workplace, school, phone number, email, or any financial details with someone you meet in a random chat. Be cautious about revealing information that could identify where you live or work. If a stranger pressures you for personal details, money, or explicit content, end the conversation immediately and move on — the Next button is always right there.

Use reporting and blocking

Every chat includes a report button. If someone is abusive, shares inappropriate content, or makes you uncomfortable, tap it. Reporting instantly disconnects the conversation for both people and alerts our moderators, who can ban repeat offenders. You never have to tolerate bad behavior — one tap ends it and finds you someone new.

Guard your privacy

Prefer to keep your location private? Toggle Hide My Country and your flag stays hidden from partners while you still choose exactly who you match with. Want to stay camera-shy? Slip on a virtual mask for a fun, lower-exposure way to chat face to face. Because XandMix is anonymous and doesn't store conversations, there's no lasting record once you leave.

Chat tips for better conversations

Set a friendly intro message so every new partner gets a warm welcome the moment they connect. Add a few interest tags so our matchmaker can pair you with people who share your hobbies. Be respectful, be curious, and remember there's a real person on the other side of the screen. If a chat isn't clicking, that's fine — a polite goodbye and a tap of Next opens the door to your next great conversation.